First, Kudos for showing the strengh to stand there in the presence of your W and not crumble. In my case I almost welcome the distance between us and I think it is healthy to a certain degree.
Secondly, Looks like J3B gave you a pretty good 2x4 so I will refrain but I will tell you this. You want 90MPH and she is just turning on the car. You need to excercise patience and self control. As I noted earlier, this will move at her speed NOT yours.
Pick your words carefully and think your outcome depends more on you and than you think.
