Thanks snodderly and cadet. I appreciate the feedback. All of you pros must get so tired of giving the same advice over and over again to us hard-headed newbies--FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND FAMILY!!
I am trying desperately to let go. I met with a lawyer today and that was really helpful and empowering. I actually am looking forward to my H moving out because I think it will help me not to focus so much on him. I think i won't bring up the book stuff again but if he follows up and asks me for them, I am thinking Conroy's book might be the most straightforward.
