You try to make every contact a good and friendly one.
The recommendation is to treat them like a sibling.
If you wouldn't do it with a sibling don't do it with them.
Be upbeat, cheerful and don't talk about relationship.

It isn't easy. If you're good at acting... Go for an Oscar.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.