Hi Cadet,
sorry for the multiple posts. Are you saying I should just keep replying in this thread with new questions? new to this message board thing...

Very interesting that you say I shouldn't give him a book. Would you mind saying a little bit more about how it could make the situation worse? I have read Jed Diamond's books and I feel like they focus more on the biological/physcial than the psychological. My husband is clearly having an identity crisis so I think he may be more apt to dismiss Diamond's book as irrelevant. I liked Conroy's book b/c it was a quick easy read. Katherine Brehony's book I thought had some great Jungian analysis but is very dense.

Thanks for your feedback and sorry again for multiple posts.