Send her something that compliments something other than her looks. AND don't EXPECT a response in return.
In your case, a little of the right pursuing is okay. You've baited your W back to a certain degree, now it's time to slowly reel her in.
There is nothing wrong with the right pursuing at the right time. There are so many people on here that believe the DB rules are strict and to the letter. That you must NEVER pursue, etc.
That's true only in the beginning to settle the waters. Once things are calmer, and you see positive signs, that's when you can add a little pursuit.
But pursuit with no expectations.
Maybe she's pulling back because she saw some thing that triggered a memory in her about how you were before. That's why the changes you make in you need to be real. Not faked.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.