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I know I need to be patient but...


But, you're doing a crap ton of things that shows you are not patient.

9,

You wanted a 2x4 in your title.

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I wonder if I wasnt better off just cutting my losses and moving forward.


So...your wife is a loss?
When the going gets tough...there goes 9?
For better or worse...oh...wait...I actually only meant for better?

Wipe your nose, live up to your convictions and show her the man she married. Is she f-ed up right now? Yeah, adversity shows character, and tests your moral compass. How is yours?



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet