I have not initiated any type of pursuing gesture since the very beginning
I don't know if I believe this to be tru.
But anyway, So you've read men/mars women/venus, right?
There's a topic in there about gift giving. Women keep score differently then men. You could buy her an expensive piece of jewelry or you could go to a local pottery shop and MAKE something for her for less than $25. It does matter(for the most part) what you give her. For women, it truely is the thought behind the gift. BTW, expensive jewelry and a less expensive gift both equal the same points.
With that being said men like gifts theat are functional, the latest gadget etc. You need to provide a thoughtful gift that MEANS something to her. If you chose to get her someting get her something that appeals to her emotional side.
Also, if you chose to give a gift make sure you expect NOTHING in return, NOTHING. got it?
That's where you will be disappointed. NO EXPECTATIONS= NO DISAPPOINTMENTS.
Remember this statement too.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."