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[zengypsy]

Here's something that came my way today....

"Letting someone go is a state of mind and has nothing to do with your actions."

"Letting go is what releases the fear and upset so that you can see what action you need to take."


And this....a total reality check...

"If letting someone go is difficult, look for what you are really avoiding. People don't leave wonderful, loving relationships. They leave lousy relationships. So why would you hang on to a lousy relationship, especially when hanging on produces so much suffering and is so counter-productive? We hang on to avoid something inside of ourselves. We don't want to feel the hurt, the loss, or the feelings of being alone or of being abandoned. We don't want to look at our having failed or of being not good enough. We don't want to be embarrassed or look bad. We don't want to confront our fears of not being able to make it on our own. We hang on to avoid all the feelings and emotion that would be present if the person were to leave."

Just stuff to think about since we are all the same pit!