Just one tip after you get home after she packed and left. If you are an emotional guy, try to walk into the house with some buddies or family. And might be, get out of the house the evening and have some fun. I went crazy the day my wife came, packed and left. I did not understand how badly it would affect me when i walked in.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...