Thanks zengypsy! I do not want a divorce or separation. H has brought it up during r talks but never brings it up again and is always talks in general no plan etc. I think he is just so confused at this time. I do believe he is going through a life crisis. I try to avoid all r talks. He has stated that he is not happy but is also scared of losing everything (us). It is so confusing because he will talk about future plans one minute and the next act like he feels trapped being here. I know his love language is words of affirmation and touch. How do I "feel his love tank" and lovingly detach? I am so confused how to engage him at this point.
