gifts are important to her, but not in a diamond ring sort of way
Absolutely! In fact, it's the little, unexpected, non-holiday or special occassion gift that just melts the heart. It doesn't have to be wrapped or even in a bag, but left in a place that she'll be sure to see it. Those little "thinking of a special memory"......or something that would add to a secret little joke between the two of you........anything you happen to pass by in the store and it reminds you of something with her......get it.
So you think I should get her a gift?
That would be a pretty big thing for me, I have not initiated any type of pursuing gesture since the very beginning. Tough to know how she might take it...
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