Agreed busting. With all due respect Bond, i know you are a vetren with amazing insight but I think that your sitch is different than Islanders.

It sounds like Islander's OM is not going to b with his wife so confronting him will not make him realize that he should be with his wife, IMO.

Only Islander knows how his wife would react. Would she be impressed by his strength or upset that he is intereing with her decisions.

Tough one to call.

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BITS

BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11