Cas, I am delighted for you by the turn of events. Please be very very cautious. While it is good that you are 'one of his options', you are a remarkable woman, and may feel, and come to believe that you deserve more.

I will repeat, and then stop saying, that as long as OW is in the picture all is far from well with his soul. I know this from personal experience, and from the experience of others. Take care of yourself. Remember it is your journey too.

If they return before they are ready they will almost certainly run again [not original - HB or Snodderly I think]