Thank you for replying Lorie ... the thing is, the OW is gone and this was just supposed to be a casual date that he told me about but I think you may be right about the testing thing. He likely wanted to see how I would react and when I didn't react to the date, he was likely trying to see how I would react to him saying he wanted to cancel the date. Either way, I think I handled it well 'cause I didn't really react to either aside from saying "don't get the kids involved -- my new mantra" LOL.
It's funny, there has been much communication with H and I the last few days, mostly initiated by him. Sometimes, I'll just leave things ... sometimes I'll respond. Yesterday, just before taking off, he and I were texting back and forth about kids, H's hockey and H's bad luck with pipe repairs the last while. He was saying what a bad month it had been for him and that he just wanted to start fresh, blah blah. I responded that was a good attitude, start fresh, spring is coming. He didn't respond.
When I turned my phone back on when I landed (4 hour flight), there were about 4 pictures on my phone from him of our D shaving our S's head. I wrote, are you serious, she is shaving his head and he is letting her LOL?, to which he responded, yep. Anyway, we joked for a few texts about that and then I discovered I was missing my bag. I went in to go through the lost luggage ordeal. I then got my rental car and just before leaving the airport, sent H a text to see if he knew of a 24 hr pharmacy around the area I was staying in, (he's from here), where I could go pick up some toiletries. He didn't, but looked it up for me and was texting me very specific instructions while I drove to my hotel. I thanked him, went shopping at midnight and finally got into my room about 1 am. I love travel!!! Anyway, had meetings all day today. Nothing much to report other than that 'cause I'm completely exhausted!
Oh, I am going to see H's grandparents tomorrow. Will post more on that later but time for some shut eye here.
Me: 41 STBXH: 36 D: 11 S: 9 BOMB 12/2009 SEPARATED 5/2010 D SERVED BY ME 9/2010 FINAL D When I'm ready