As someone who is on the flip side of your sitch, I agree with Mish - the less contact, the healthier it will be for you in the long run. Stick to the essential facts regarding the kids (school, health, etc.) but do your best not to respond to anything else...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
