Young couple with WAW.....2

[FellOnBlackDays]

Iw,
I agree. Good rebound. Man, try not to do that again, if possible. I know that it is maddening when they leave and then complain about it. I have struggled with that ever since my w left. One night, while she was complaining about the aspects of her new life that she didn't like, she began crying. I snapped at her and told her to "never f*cking cry in front of me again about that sh*t." That was also before I learned how to DB. I know, you want to shove it down their throat when they complain, but it is a good thing when they complain. It is a small window into their world and they are letting you look through it. I am not saying you have to be a lap dog. But, if they want to vent, let them. You can find some insight in there if you try hard enough. Not to mention, over time, you will become a trusted confidant again.

Keep up the good work, buddy!

FOBD