Zen,
Thank you for your thoughts today. I find it helpful to read the thoughts of others when trying to deal with my own sitch. I found some inspiration in what you posted today. Thank you! I am so glad that you are doing well and seem to be getting a handle on this thing. I am proud to call you a BITS!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...