"can someone give me their opinion. when we first separated i acted like a fool calling begging saying mean things to her. she completely shut me out deleted me from fb wouldn't return any of my text messages. I backed way off for about a month now she initiates sexually charged conversations, actually has sex with me and agrees to go out with me. why the sudden change. but she still wants a divorce but wants us to do things with the kids. tells her friends she is scared to get hurt again and afraid we will fall back into the same rut. for one week she tells me good night and sends a lil kissy face. then the next week she backs back off.f"
Are you really asking this question? That means you haven't changed at all. You had an A. You accuse her of seeing other guys when she wasn't and you had uncontrollable jealousy which you're beginning to show again.
You backed off and showed that you changed. That's what brought her back. It's no wonder why she can't commit to you. Look at you now. She starts showing positive actions cautiously and you start wondering if she's seeing someone else. It's no wonder she hasn't gone back to you. She is afraid of getting hurt again.
Stay dim. Not dark. You need to show her the positive changes are still there. But most importantly, make your changes FOR LIFE. The jealousy, anger, etc. is not good in any relationship.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
