IMHO you should confront the OM. Your W is very vulnerable right now and he's playing the pity card so she feels stuck with him. There comes a time when a man needs to fight for his family. I'm not saying that you need to get in the guys face, but he's going to be playing the guilt card to your W.
After confronting him, then your W can make the decision. Right now if you stay dark and let the OM tug on her emotions, you're not going to get anywhere.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
