Go dark, i mean DARK,my WAW was acting the same, coming home,ML,she is playing my friend, and you are getting pulled apart bit by bit, GAL, you are a human being with feelings, set boundaries, stick to them, even when you feel she s pulling away, my wife was totally lost, do not board the rollerecoaster, i bet she is wonderful, and i bet you are a good man, let her see that your life will not stop, even when she no longer stands by you....be strong.....kevc