can someone give me their opinion. when we first separated i acted like a fool calling begging saying mean things to her. she completely shut me out deleted me from fb wouldn't return any of my text messages. I backed way off for about a month now she initiates sexually charged conversations, actually has sex with me and agrees to go out with me. why the sudden change. but she still wants a divorce but wants us to do things with the kids. tells her friends she is scared to get hurt again and afraid we will fall back into the same rut. for one week she tells me good night and sends a lil kissy face. then the next week she backs back off.