Hey SC, you’re not running out of time, you have all the time in the world. Don’t wait for him, what would you do differently if he did D today? Do it now, you don’t have to wait for him.
None of this will feel long, tiring or agonizing if you are doing it for YOU, so that is what you need to do. Put the M out of your head. Pretend like the D has gone through, now what would you be doing?
There is a big difference between not hoping and not caring. You can still care. You can know that if he does end up with a change of heart you would still like to work on the M, but don’t “hope” it will happen.
I know all of this is easier said than done. I of course still have my bad days. Day’s where even though I know exactly what I should be doing, I still don’t do it. We just need to do the best we can. One foot in front of the other.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
