Lunch was nice. No R at all, just small talk about our kids, ourselves and each other. Since there was no R talk I didn't get a chance to validate anything but regardless I was happy to be there with her. Almost a week ago she declined my invite to lunch and told me that she didn't want to think about me or us.

After we exited the restaurant I gave her mu coat cause it was cold and she thanked me for lunch. I thanked her for the invite and said I was a little surprised I got it. She said I bet you were. I asked her with a smile, you want to talk about that and she looked at me, smiled and said Nope.

She's driving this train, I'm only along for the ride. We have dinner tonight with kids after dance and am looking for suggestions as what to do next. I would think I continue to let her make moves and I keep on keeping on.