IDK, I might be in the minority here, but I don't think this is a time to be going dark for you.

I would be there for her, just make sure there is ZERO PRESSURE coming from you right now. Be there to validate her concerns, emotions, etc. Let her intiate the contact, but do not ignore it if she does.

JMVHO of course.

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