Do an online search for midlifecrisisforum or something like that.

I ran across a bunch of support groups where he can actually interact directly with men going through it, and are trying to make things right.

MLC is such a different animal it goes beyond just marriage issues.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER