i know im speculating but its better to do it on here than to her. i think she may be in a ea affair and when it goes bad she calls on me. i know my wife and dont think she would be sleeping with me and someone else too she has nutten to gain from it.
well i ask her to go with us this weekend and left it open she said we can go eat or something but couldn't go the whole weekend cause she had a paper to do. i said ok. She text me about 2 hours later and ask me if that made me made i said did what make me mad she said that she had to do her paper. i said nope ur in school gotta pass. she ten started asking me bout our 12 year olds baseball practice. Who know im so confused
why cant i shake this feeling she is seeing someone. i dont ask her about it but its driving me crazy. how do the folks on here that know their wives are talking to someone deal with it
Be careful the mind will have its own way and play games, blow stuff out of all proportion.
Just dont go there, unless you get concrete evidence, and then it simply means you have a little competition to Db against.
Happened to me a few weeks down the line, didnt change how i used the advice on here, but my initial response nearly lost all, he has now gone, and we may and i mean may be at the begining of the end of this nightmare, but i must say again IF you get evidence DONOT react straight away like i did and blow your mind, it could cost you dear.
Other man or not, you can still save the day, believe me....kevc
thanks kevc i have no concrete evidence its just my mind i think. and no i would never blow my top with her ive come to far to start that crap again. like i said in an earlier post i ask her to go away for the weekend and she said we could go to dinner or something but not the whole weekend as she has a history paper for college to do. i said ok and she text me a few hours later and ask if that made me mad that she had a history paper to do. i said nah u gotta pass in school. i really think that was a test and she is just waiting for me to blow up and control her again to justify her decision to divorce.
can someone give me their opinion. when we first separated i acted like a fool calling begging saying mean things to her. she completely shut me out deleted me from fb wouldn't return any of my text messages. I backed way off for about a month now she initiates sexually charged conversations, actually has sex with me and agrees to go out with me. why the sudden change. but she still wants a divorce but wants us to do things with the kids. tells her friends she is scared to get hurt again and afraid we will fall back into the same rut. for one week she tells me good night and sends a lil kissy face. then the next week she backs back off.
