SIC - This all sounds very good. The only advice that I will give you is to continue with your 180s and continue to do your very best to show your W how lucky she is to be 'trapped' with you!

Can you get her into counseling? If so, make sure to look for a solutions based counselor.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce