Patience is the key Nine. I've been reading your thread and you need to practice some.
Trust me, I know that it is very, very difficult. We want so badly for things to be resolved and for the hurt and upheaval to end. And we want it NOW.
But...
From the very beginning... we do not control the timeline... we are not driving the bus...
Our WAS is!
This does not change the second that we get positive information or the second that our WAS says that they are reconsidering the walk away...
Remember... WAS is as confused, if not more so, than the LBS when all of this goes down. That also does not change when they begin to have doubts about their choices. In fact... that is probably only the very beginning for them... they are trying to figure everything out...
On this, because you are here, you have had a head start. Remember that, be patient with your W, and give her time.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
