Islander - Patience. You and Nine have made tremendous strides towards the ultimate goal of reconciling your M's, but you both want to rush it WAY too much!

When your W draws closer to you, or provides you with information that is positive, take it with a grain of salt and let her back it up with action before you start planning on the future.

It is patience and time that got you here... it will be patience and time that will get you to where you ultimately want to be.

What do you do now? Go back to the beginning. Go back to doing what was working.

If you are questioning whether or not you can continue to do this... don't.... YOU CAN.

Dig deep and find the strength... what do you have to lose?

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce