Mach 1, I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for the 2x4. You are correct. After I went back and re-examined my actions, I do realize I was doing the right things for the wrong reasons. As always, thanks for your input. I have to take the "keys" to my happiness away from her. No doubt!
LOL...
That's not a 2x4....
That's a tap
Anyway....
FOBD, you can thank me by your actions....
Seeing it written ?
Just words..
Simply put ?
Yours words, and what you have learned, that you pass on to others here...
Implement them into yourself...
It can be done, and you have to put down the victim flag, but it is entirely possible...
Once you can CLEARLY see that she is doing you a favor instead of doing this TO you....things will change within...
This takes time to process what you learned, and knowing it and applying it are two different things....
You have to trust from within , that these principals give you the best chance for success...
In all of your endeavors....not just your relationship...
You have to be patient with yourself as well. Feel what is going on around you , so that your pain is a stepping stool for your growth.
There are no guarantees that things will ever work out with your spouse.
But, if you do the work on yourself, I guarantee that you will come through it with you....
