I know you have been saying you want me to sign the papers and I understand you are not feeling happy or complete inside.
You know....100% what she is feeling inside ?
Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
I agree you must do whatever you need to do to be happy with yourself. As I have already told you, I will not stand in the way of your happiness or you doing whatever you need to do.
This sounds like you are giving her "permission"....
Does she need that ?
Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
After your counseling session we'll both be in a better place to figure out our next steps.
Whew...then that will be over...assuming you are correct.
Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
I have setup the appointment for you at xxx on xxx, at xxx.
She asked you to do this ?
I thought she said she didn't want this ?
Or this another
Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
I am certain that having a professional, competent adviser will make it easier for both of us to truly understand each other and remain the best of friends. Regardless of whatever happens in the future.
Can they get me the winning Lottery numbers too ?
Busting....
Don't try to fix this with this letter. Use what you have learned recently.
Stop with the guilt...
Stop with the assuming you know what she is thinking...
Stop planning things for her...
The letter ?
KISS ....
"I" and "You" statements are usually loaded with guilt...
