Turned a corner

[verysad2day]

So confused. Yesterday was just a normal day. I knew H was going to work late, so I had no excuse to contact him. Actually I was relived that I had some space in the house.

Anyway, he sent me a text saying he was starving. This went back and forth a few times. He teased and said he had prime rib and crab legs for lunch. I responded: I hate you He wrote: I am sure you do

Here is the kicker. I waited and reflected and then responded:
"It was a kidding. I do not hate you. I am angry with you. I wouldn't give another person so much power over me to hate them"

Was this a mistake? He came shortly afterthat and was nice as could be.