What is your goal? How badly do you want this to all be over? Would you be better off than their proposal if the court ruled according to the normal rules?
Your kid's welfare is top priority of course. If the reduced child support they originally proposed is going to reduce their standard of living while they are with your STBXW then is that best?
Divorce causes financial strife for years if not decades. No one comes out of this a winner. The best you can hope for is to put the least amount stress on your kids. All of this hanging in limbo is not any better for them than it is for you. They feel your stress and your STBXW's stress. The sooner all of this is on paper and done the better for all of you.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
