FOBD:

I just got caught up on your sitch and you know what?? YOU ARE AWESOME!!!! And your W knows that, but she's not as far ahead in the journey as you are now. Isn't funny how that all flips over time?

I think you practiced your DB skills well. It certainly inspired me if I ever have another interaction with my STXH and I know I will as he has stuff at my house still too.

Just keep representing the new and improved FOBD every day. She will realize her loss. Will you still have the door open when she does?


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11