Brian, Hang in there, buddy. Sounds like she is really in a hurry. My W is also in a hurry. However, I think I am competing against an idealized life rather than an OM. I feel your pain.
I find myself constantly vacillating between partnering with her on planning the D as a 180 versus trying to introduce delays to slow her down (and this is one of those things that DOESN'T work too well for me)
Yeah..I'm with you there. Slowing down, in my case, would only push her away. I am doing everything I can to give her space and whatever she needs to get this done. She has thanked me many times for this.
