Thanks guys, I appreciate the responses... You are both right..

Piecing is so damn hard... When the bomb first drops you don't have much anger... It's mostly fear and pain.

When the anger and trust issue hit it's a different roller coaster.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012