I think that you should only inform her a out the counseling session at this point. And I agree with you that it is more important at this point to get her to agree to C, rather than just sit back and wait for her to do it herself. She offered to go, so let her.

Knowing me, I would probably send tue whole letter, but I also know that is not the right thing to do.

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M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...