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[ninelives]

Islander, i have been following your sitch very closely and we are waist deep in the BS.


Country; you are right but I just cant understand it. When I say something , I usually follow through on it or at least follow up.

Thanks for the input lost. I dont know how to respond anymore.

I bought her and the kids dinner from Wendy's and she texted me a big thank you and then sent me an update on how well her and the kids are getting along tonight. A far cry from her desperate suicidal text a day ago. As I said, she is content now and will be happy with the turn of events.

I havent responded to her text and dont know which way to turn now. Do I go into the friend zone or go dark again.

She seems to respond best when I am dark. In our marriage, she always seemed to respond best when we were in a quarrel and admitted to me the other day that she likes drama in her life or words to that effect.

Is that what I want to live with for the rest of my life if we do R?

Some tough questions down the road.

Thanks for your contiued in put.

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