The roller coaster ride is not fun... I'm sorry it seems like she didn't mean it. Country's right, you have to give it time. She will back off a lot now because she laid a lot out there. You can't take what she's doing at face value. Think of her as a turtle... she stuck her head waaaaay out and now she's gone back into her shell where it feels safe and she can control what she does. The best thing for you to do now is stand on what you said and wait. Yeah, the waiting [censored]. What would you have done before? Made her follow through? Felt like everything was hopeless and give up? Well, 180 whatever it was that you did before. It'll make you feel a whole lot better and she'll notice the difference.

Hope that helps a little.


Me 34 H 37
M 12/97
H moved out 03/09
D 05/10
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