I think right now you should ignore everything your W said, except the part about going to counseling. I think it is a positive sign that she ended with that statement.

You are right about her being oblivious to everything she is asking of you, but doing worse herself. That must be the nature of the WAS.

BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...