So it's been a while since I've posted... Need advice... Things with W are great! Lots of affection, we ML, cuddle every night, do lots of things together, etc.

But I can't get past the feelings she HAD for her EA. It's killing me...

How do I get past it? Will it ever feel better?

I will say one thing. This event has made me "feel" for my W again. I had become indifferent to her. I wanted out of the M.

Is there something more I can take from this?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012