First of all BIG hugs (((((IB)))))).

Will you still be standing?

I don't think you have to switch forums unless you want to. He is still in MLC.

Maybe go read some threads on "divorced but not done" or "surving the big D" to get a feel for them and decide from there!

There are several of us right behind you!
We will get thru this!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing