Received final D papers today. All I need to do is sign and it is over. I'm overwhelmed with grief.

Oddly enough, I received an email from my BIL today. I have not heard from him since June when he emailed to let me know my H was going to go through with all of this and I needed to just move on. Anyway - the email said "IB, I saw H this weekend and it made me think a lot about you and the kids. I know that this will be a very tough week for all of you but I am thinking about you ALL and praying that you will be ok. I know you will be."

At first I thought this was just an obligatory note - however apparently H took OW out with BIL and his gf for H's birthday. My friends who read this email said their first thought was BIL sensed the mistakes H was making. I don't know.

It doesn't matter anyway...

So, when the papers are signed - do I switch forums???? Another casualty of MLC????

M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time