BITS, your replies have inspired me. My brother just called and invited me over to help them eat the leftover reception food and watch them open gifts. My mother and I are going to go over and visit with them. I have a choice tonight. Sit here and watch my W pack stuff up or go spend some quality time with family. I have chosen my family over my WAS tonight. She can come and get her stuff later in the week. I just called her to let her know that our meeting tonight is canceled. I got voicemail. Shocking!!! I was polite, but firm that we would have to reschedule.

Tonight, I want to be with my family. I love them and they love me, no questions asked. I will get back on later tonight when I get home.

Thanks, team. I would not be able to make it through this without you!!!

BITS truly never walk alone!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...