I am assuming this is the only serving piece of it's kind in the continental united states?
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She also went on to inform me that she doesn't like the fact that she still has little things still spread throughout the house and other things that still need to be divided up.
So box it up FOBD. Box up what is hers and give it to her. This way next time she calls it's not because she needs something from you. Avoid setting yourself for constant disappointment.
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In other words, "husband, I am not coming back and I want my stuff."
Guessing on your part. Truth is you have no idea.
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I guess she is pulling back
Happens everytime. It happens with your W and it happens with my W. If you know it is coming why does it effect you so much?
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In other words, "husband, I am not coming back and I want my stuff."
More guessing on your part.
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Maybe I DB'ed a bit too much this weekend
No such thing!
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Maybe she thinks now that I have moved on. I didn't wear my wedding ring this weekend. She had to have noticed that.
Maybe! I hate this word. I try not to use it in my post too much but it is hard to avoid. Truth is you have no idea what is going on in her head and as long as you stay stuck trying to figure it out you will continue to hurt.
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Frankly, I don't know what I want now either. I want to save this thing, I really, really do. I still lover her more than anything in this world.
I can relate to this so much FOBD. At this point I would be skeptical is W called me and said let's work it out. I would have to be sure it is the right thing to do. My W has not called since our convo on Friday. It was a rough one for me but I feel so much better with my new position. If you she calls nice, if she doesn't.....nice. I am not pinning my hopes on what she does or fails to do. She wants to go through with the D. That will be her lost. My lost has already happened. I will live and so will you.
