Brian, I think it depends on what you are trying to accomplish.

If this is part of moving on and bettering yourself then why should you be concerned with how your STBX reacts.

I do not think this is a good idea if you are attempting to illicit a response from your STBX.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill