I think H already knows he is wrong, and he is not trying to BS me into thinking that he is doing this to work on our M, but more to work on us being friends rather than becoming bitter and not communicating if we go our separate ways. I can see that one of his greatest fears is for that to happen. From what I know of H, one is that he does not want to be away from D12. Another is that to be honest, H and I are co-dependent.
For me I think I want to try Retro as we are both Catholics and I do see him struggling with his Faith. Myself I am not too keen on MC but he brought it up, thinking it might help him handle his depression.
I am willing to talk to a DB coach, yes, just for me.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go