It's easy to get caught up in the NOW part of life. Look past it on this situation.
Don't settle for what appears to be small act of kindness. For what appears to you as acts of kindness means something totally different to her.

Unlike Alan Iverson, Practice is needed.
Keep developing your skill.

You can do it and will start to process her action better each time.
Don't do crazy.
gr8

Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."