She emailed: "Why didn't you answer the phone?" I emailed back: "On another call. Will call you back." 5 minutes later she called again.
After my call I called her back. Call went something like:
She: Hello Me: Hey.
pause
Me: What's up? She: Nothing. I just wanted to know why you rescheduled when I was working. (I had already told her very clearly in the email she has just been reading)
Then I briefly explained why again and said it was just a miscommunication.
There was another long pause when neither of us said anything, so then I ventured:
"Did you still want to have another session?"
Her: Not really. Me: Ok
Another long pause.
Her: How do you feel about that? Me: Fine. Her: Fine?
Me: Yeah. I don't you to do anything you don't want to. Her: <In a sing-songy kind of tone> yeah you do. Me: <same tone> no I don't
Then she suddenly changed the subject and started talking about the kids. I listened, validated for awhile, listened and validated some more, then told her I had to tgo and take another call and we chat later sometime.
She said she had to go as well and that was it.
Not too bad, actually. I'm feeling better than I did this morning when I was thinking she was too pis*ed to even talk to me, but now we're at least being civil and speaking to each other again.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
