26yrs is this the end

[JustStunned]

Kevc, Yes it will be a fight to the end and after, but as you make progress I believe it will get easier. You do have to keep DBing, but adjust to the changes in your sitch.

I copied this from a veterans post earlier today I wish I had copied the posters name to give credit..

And the four phases I was taught as a newcomer here were reducing negative emotions, friendship, romance, and recommitment.

Do not rush. Do not pressure. Build trust and friendship first. Remember what got you here and 180 from it.

Keep posting, I may never have the opportunity with my W that you have with yours. The successes posted to this board give the rest of us strength.

There is another forum called Piecing Our Marriage back together. I understand it is a good place to check also.